In order to let go, you must accept it first.
What the woman's nurturing voice does for a man is incredible. With the same tone can she be carried from a gentleman security. Healing is equally beneficial but in different ways. So, too, are the opposites of views and qualities.
Moving towards acceptance starts with listening to your inner voice which includes listening to your fears, your confidence, your cravings, your disgusts, and the coalition of your thoughts and feelings. These things are separate entities but they are equally important to acknowledge, as you will learn much from seeing the angles of everything in between. Here, you'll be able to make changes that are most aligned with you. Look, listen and feel it all.